A bouquet full of reflections

We really appreciate our GlamStash readers. Our aim isn’t to re-direct you or direct you into being something you're not. We want to celebrate who you have become and who you're becoming. We try to bring you quality content; your little daily commute/lunch break read to ensure you that we are thinking of you minus those hassling subscription fees- because a bestie is also kind of like your free therapist, she's not here to milk you on any email list', we want to share the new toys we found and share the fun of being your No.1 fan! It's looking gray out there though we are here to cheer you on, to relate to those rough days that either our nauseating hormones or that harsh random bloke who cursed you off because you were just a little outside the white parking line... Those days where you can’t wait to go and enjoy your little sanctuary of a home and convince yourself that what you're doing is the right thing and why should someone convince us otherwise. Why do so many people have the energy to feel the need to criticize, to feel entitled because of that extra 6p at the till?!? (Your usual witnessing of the corner express shop pastry offer fiasco, where that person must have been very hangry' or just an all around tw*t...) 

There is no easy route to our future 'goal' towards a plus bonus or a status upgrade and as time strolls by, we feel we aren’t getting anywhere... So many out there selling hopes and buying you out of your beliefs and convincing you into buying theirs. At the end of the day no matter if you try to debate it or not; you most likely will not end up where you think you are going to end up, so just continue to go with it... looking like millions' of course; as you do, because those distracting 'get there fast dream sellers' are only delaying you from identifying yourself into your truest transformation of a woman. Now Take a breath.... OK carrying on - Keeping in mind one real fact; is that doing the opposite of what hurt you in life won't necessarily heal you, it may open new doors new opportunities though you may have to go back to that self who was caught up in heartbreak or disappointment and say to her that you're proud of her for making that decision; because it was the only ticket at the time that got you out of that rut of a situation. It's not an easy experience to re-visit that internal pain though you may have to go back to that version of you to give yourself a hug, a hug that you didn’t get, back when you really needed it the most. You rarely get more of what you do want without getting more of what you don’t want. Remember to be ready for the 'front side' you need to be ready for the 'backside'; meaning - if you want that promotion  or Mrs. title (front side ends..) you got to be prepared to face that frustration and pressure from the 'backside' that is going to push you to callus you to get through that road to what you want, trust the delays the sacrifices you will have to face; because those delays and risks you take; are what you need to gain and prepare you for what is ahead. 

This version of the world tries to cripple people into survival mode or a numbed own 'woke' mentality, on a constant' that sends us down those dead end dysfunctional scenarios taking over our prime human ability to decide for ourselves, again you shouldn’t have to 'fit in' and like we pointed out before; if you ever feel like you need to make an effort… it's not the crowd that’s there to serve you or sit in the mud with you. Though we are your kind reminder that your emotions are not the problem your emotions create the 'problem', we want to remind you that it is YOU who can choose what you invest emotion in to. You may be scrolling through social and see those 'family photo dumbs' posts thinking their life is perfect and you only just managed to move into your new rental and you find yourself tripping..., remember no one is going to post their suffering, some people just have a really good cover-up blanket to what's really going on and are just very good at posting their quick fix wins- if they were a really well connected family and bonded well together; you wouldn’t rely on family days out for that, hence its worrisome to think what happens when they're stuck at home together.. if you know what we mean... so don't let your friend Lucy's family posts make you feel you're lagging she just needs to use social as a cry for help as a way to feel that she's a good Mum; because again Lucy also needs a hug that she’s doing great job being one, though she has her hands full all the time... her husband is too busy taking the photo instead of gagging her in bed...yup....

So in closing for this post beautiful GlamStash readers, we wish we were magical messengers and hand you over a big bouquet of flowers, because every girl deserves a bouquet of flowers now and a again.. big or small.. the thought counts right... Personal experience: I remember seeing this vase in a store and it wasn’t exactly a vase you’d usually pick for flowers though it had this uncommonality about it, so I bought it as a minimal decoration piece to add to my apartment’s living room, thinking on the way home how nice if it were to ever have some flowers in it. A few weeks down the line; little did I know that the number of bouquets of flowers I received that vase did come in handy. Unfortunately it was too big and fragile to move abroad so I gifted it to the next tenant and I hope it brings her a bunch of happy flowers lighting up those grey days out there... 

I did happen to pass by these cute miniature living room vases on temu.com, compact and safe to pack away for your future move to have brightening up that marketplace IKEA coffee table you found for half the price because the finishing touches are ours to add just like our decisions that we've waited our whole life for.

Check out the link below for the perfect blend of charm and style: https://temu.to/m/ubx29oc7xn5